There are times when actions taken defy explanations! This is the case with “the talented Mr. Weiner” – oops…that should read “the lying Mr. Weiner!” First you tweet a picture of your wiener (covered up of course) and then you try to cover it up? What? This is beyond a Comedy Central South Park script. Only in real life can you find something this bizarre!
Sensational? Yes! Worthy of this blog – well only in a few ways.
It is not my intention to tear someone down when they have been foolish in their choices. As an ethics speaker, my opening line is – “Every Choice Has A Consequence!” That is true and like Representative Weiner, I, too, have had to face the consequences of my choices. Perhaps they were not a embarrassing as his, but the consequences were every bit as great.
Now called upon to resign, embattled and embarrassed Anthony Weiner is just now beginning to experience the consequences of his Tweet! “The chairman of the Republican Party said Tuesday that Rep. Anthony Weiner should resign after admitting to sexually charged online relationships with several women and lying about his misdeeds.” Beyond calls for his resignation, in a Washington Post article the following was stated:
House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.) has written to the chairman and ranking Democrat on the House Ethics Committee formally requesting an investigation into whether Rep. Anthony Weiner broke House rules, after the New York Democrat admitted that he had repeatedly liedto cover up his inappropriate communications with several women online.
“On June 6, 2011, Representative Anthony Weiner disclosed conduct which he described as inappropriate,” Pelosi wrote in the letter, which she sent Tuesday to Ethics Committee Chairman Jo Bonner (R-Ala.) and Rep. Linda Sanchez (Calif.). “An investigation by the Ethics Committee to determine whether the Rules of the House of Representatives have been violated is warranted.”
CHOICES AND ETHICS:
The issue for me isn’t what the consequence should be. I am not the judge nor jury…that is for others to decide. Rather, for me the entire conversation centers around choices and consequences! To put this into perspective, I was talking today with a client for whom I’ll be speaking soon. Folks with the Florida Association of Counties have asked me to come and speak at their annual meeting on ETHICS. They, like many around the nation, have seen the devastating impact that unethical choices have on elected officials, government employees and all connected with them including their families. In fact, this article was sent to me today that outlines the serious impact of our ethical or UNETHICAL choices.
Over a ten year period over 800 public officials were convicted on charges and that number does not reflect the much larger number of folks that did not face prosecution due to challenges with cases or circumstances where the violation could be resolved without public prosecution.
But in a time when things move more quickly than ever before, the actions we take today may very well make the headlines tomorrow. The Washington Post describes Weiners actions as follow: “
Here is what we’ve been dealing with: We’ve been dealing with four sad, grainy photos of Rep. Anthony Weiner (D-N.Y.) in various states of undress, looking pathetic in the pathetic way exclusive to men who are trying their best to look sexy. He sat shirtless at his desk. He sat shirted on his couch. In one particularly artful photo, he sat next to a picture of a dog in a sweater and held up a piece of paper with an arrow pointing to his own face. It said, “Me.” He apparently sent these photos to a single mom named Meagan Broussard, who responded with her own grainy pouts. He also texted with several other women.
He was guilty, but of what?
Here is what we are dealing with: We are dealing with the gray space where fidelity meets Facebook and with the boundary between our “real” lives and our online lives, which is constantly being pushed, and never where you expect it.”
Weiner contends that his actions were private and personal. He used his own computer and it had nothing to do with his role as a United States Representative. All that may be true, but it doesn’t change the action(s) he took and the judgment surrounding them. The problem is two fold: (1) the choices we make do have direct and profound consequences (I know as I’ve experienced them in federal prison) and (2) in this day and age, the speed at which we make our choices and receive our consequences makes taking the time to think about them much more profound.
Again, best stated in the Washington Post article:
But 20 years ago, Weiner would have had to load his Nikon with film before pointing it at his crotch. He would have had to take this film to the Fotomat, wait 24 hours before picking it up, find an envelope, lick a stamp. In every preceding era, there were built-in checkpoints, moments in which one could ask oneself, “Is this a good idea? Does she want to see my dog in a sweater? Am I a congressman? Should that influence my decision?”
There was, in fact, a literal red flag: the one you flicked up on the mailbox to signal to your postal carrier that your correspondence was ready for the world.
WHERE FROM HERE?
Well, for Representative Anthony Weiner – I don’t know, but I suspect that he’s soon be out of office. This is far to public and too political for it to die a quiet and quick death.
From my end, as I prepare to speak at the Florida Association of Counties meeting, I am confident that many in the room will identify with choices and consequences and perhaps, when faced with someone who has been there and done that, perhaps they will think (that’s the operative word – THINK) before they go off half cocked and do something stupid like tweeting one’s wiener!
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